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		<title>Canoeing on Lake Monroe</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 03:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sarah and I have been canoeing a few times in the past. This summer I&#8217;ve been bugging her to go, but of course it was extremely hot for a while, and it&#8217;s not terribly pleasant to be out, exposed to the sun, when it&#8217;s super hot. But, the weather has been incredible lately &#8212; lows [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah and I have been canoeing a few times in the past. This summer I&#8217;ve been bugging her to go, but of course it was extremely hot for a while, and it&#8217;s not terribly pleasant to be out, exposed to the sun, when it&#8217;s super hot.</p>
<p>But, the weather has been incredible lately &#8212; lows in the 50s and 60s, highs in the 80s. Saturday the high was in the upper 80s, and Sarah suggested a canoe trip. A great idea!</p>
<p>We figured Lake Griffy would be our best bet &#8212; Griffy is a small lake on the north side of town &#8212; within city limits, if I&#8217;m not mistaken. It&#8217;s a beautiful lake, and canoe rentals are cheap there, so we headed up to go paddling.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, we found that the water level was quite low and the shallow, stagnant water was disgusting, covered in algae and who knows what else. Suffice it to say, it looked unappealing.</p>
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<p>So, we headed out toward Lake Monroe instead. First we tried to rent a canoe at Cutwright SRA, which lies east of the causeway. This is significant, as the east side only allows idle speeds, whereas the west side has speedboats and the like. But, we came up empty-handed. They only rented pontoon boats at that location. They suggested we try Paynetown SRA, which is not far away but is on the other side of the causeway.</p>
<p>We headed to Paynetown instead, and indeed, they did have canoe rentals. We rented one for two hours. It was overpriced, at $35, but we really wanted to get out on the water, and the water looked great, so we went for it.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>We&#8217;re not terribly experienced at canoeing, and it had been a while since our last trip, so it took a little while for us to figure out how to work together to move forward and, more difficult, steer. We were having a good time. We weren&#8217;t sure which direction we should go in, so we checked out a little inlet.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4129" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094042747/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6074/6094042747_db52a09379.jpg" alt="DSCF4129" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
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<p>After some hemming and hawing, we decided we would make our way over to the quiet side of the lake. This meant we had to cross the lake, and then go under the causeway. It didn&#8217;t <em>look</em> too far &#8230; we were mostly worried about speedboats.</p>
<p>We were a little surprised how much the wake of the boats affected us on the water. The waves didn&#8217;t look big but they were rocking our canoe. Or if we were headed straight into the waves, the front of the boat would tip up and then smack back down, which Sarah found a bit frightening.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s a lot like riding a bicycle on a gravel road. It&#8217;s disconcerting the first few times your tires start to slip, but once you get used to a little float and realize it&#8217;s not the end of the world, you start to feel more comfortable. Sarah was a good sport about it, even though I know she was a little stressed during this part.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4144" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094585208/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6062/6094585208_29448d1435.jpg" alt="DSCF4144" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
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<p>Pretty soon, we realized that it was a lot further across the lake than it looked. Also, we had to contend with some wind. We kept paddling and eventually we were going under the causeway. It&#8217;s a little weird paddling under it, as I have crossed it many times by car and bicycle, but I had never seen it from this perspective.</p>
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<p>Once we were on the other side of the causeway, things did calm down considerably. It was much quieter and I would have loved to explore further east, toward Hoosier National Forest and some other areas that are familiar from land, but by this time we were getting tired. We made a small loop on the &#8220;quiet side&#8221; and headed back.</p>
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<p>Our return trip was a lot more pleasant than the trip out. Instead of cutting directly across the lake, we more or less followed the causeway and the land. We did cut across a bit but it seemed like once 5:00 rolled around, about half the boats left the lake and it was much quieter, even on the side that had been hectic before. We enjoyed a peaceful paddle back.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4152" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094050031/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6067/6094050031_e94a9010e9.jpg" alt="DSCF4152" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4162" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094051373/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6078/6094051373_cef982b56f.jpg" alt="DSCF4162" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4164" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094590386/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6079/6094590386_5e92a5b8d3.jpg" alt="DSCF4164" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>We saw this crazy house, which I guessed (and later confirmed) is owned by John Mellencamp.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4169" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094053593/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6068/6094053593_c59fcdf573.jpg" alt="DSCF4169" width="500" height="463" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4176" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094592590/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6077/6094592590_857a584409.jpg" alt="DSCF4176" width="375" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>We returned back at the rental place in almost exactly two hours, having traveled 4.3 miles.  Here&#8217;s a map of our trip.</p>
<p><iframe src="http://ridewithgps.com/trips/374246/embed" height="500px" width="100%" frameborder="0"></iframe></p>
<p>After that, we decided to head out to the <a href="http://www.scenicviewlodge.com/restaurant.php" target="_blank">Scenic View Restaurant</a>, which was right on our way home. We had heard good things about the place, but had never actually been there ourselves.</p>
<p>It was Saturday night, and there was a long wait for a table. At least the View was excellent, as promised.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4181" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094593624/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6202/6094593624_d9e0497901.jpg" alt="DSCF4181" width="500" height="306" /></a></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I did think this statue was a little over the top &#8230;</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF4180" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/6094054849/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6200/6094054849_274034a21f.jpg" alt="DSCF4180" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>However, once we got our table we really enjoyed ourselves. There was a live jazz band playing and the lake looked beautiful as the sun set.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>We enjoyed some beer samplers (the beers are not all the same, I swear, even though it looks that way), some great food (including a corn fritter appetizer that was amazing) &#8230; and great conversation, of course.</p>
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<p>Once the sun set, the torches were lit and the environment continued to be just wonderful. We&#8217;ll definitely be making a return trip, both to Lake Monroe and to the restaurant.</p>
<p>In the future, I&#8217;m considering renting a canoe from IU, which we could then take to any location we want. There are quite a few areas I&#8217;d like to explore by boat, and I&#8217;d rather not have to put in at such a busy location again, if we can avoid it. Plus, IU&#8217;s rates are cheaper for a whole day than what we paid for two hours &#8230;</p>
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		<title>An enjoyable fall hike</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 19:23:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Apertome</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Saturday, we hiked Trail 2 at Brown County State Park. We had hiked this trail once before. It&#8217;s a moderate 2-mile loop. I enjoyed the sign at the trailhead with lots of data about the trail. The trail features numerous rock bridges, stairs, and other structures. We walked past some of the cabins, which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Saturday, we hiked Trail 2 at Brown County State Park. We had hiked this trail once before. It&#8217;s a moderate 2-mile loop. I enjoyed the sign at the trailhead with lots of data about the trail.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0277" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156873490/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1169/5156873490_999e6cffbe.jpg" alt="DSCF0277" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>The trail features numerous rock bridges, stairs, and other structures.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0280" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156264463/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1243/5156264463_7886088ef9.jpg" alt="DSCF0280" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0290" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156874912/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4052/5156874912_c91b6505d6.jpg" alt="DSCF0290" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>We walked past some of the cabins, which are available for rental. We noticed they had a whole lot of windows. They looked like a fun place to spend a weekend. If we didn&#8217;t live so close, we would consider staying in a cabin like these.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0294" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156267153/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4126/5156267153_92417a85c6.jpg" alt="DSCF0294" width="375" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>This bridge seems funny now, with the creek completely dry from the drought. Even when it is running, I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s a small stream.</p>
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<p>As you can see, Rob was enjoying himself thoroughly!</p>
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<p>As were the bipeds.</p>
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<p>The trail winds through a ravine for a while.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0309" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156272179/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4069/5156272179_6a70745a31.jpg" alt="DSCF0309" width="375" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>And eventually you reach the North Observation Tower. We didn&#8217;t go up in the tower, although we have been in it before.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0316" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156883122/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1427/5156883122_a56bb8a93c.jpg" alt="DSCF0316" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>It was an incredibly beautiful day, and we especially enjoyed looking up at the beautiful blue sky through the remaining foliage.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0318" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156274485/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4034/5156274485_85b52c0262.jpg" alt="DSCF0318" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>At one point, Rob insisted that I take his photo. He is a photogenic dog, I have to admit.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSCF0325" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/5156276751/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4060/5156276751_06eb54c829.jpg" alt="DSCF0325" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>These stone steps led back up to the Abe Martin Lodge area, where we had started.</p>
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<p>It was a perfect day to be out hiking, and we all enjoyed going for a walk through the woods together. Not every outing has to be epic.</p>
<p>The traffic at Brown County has already died off significantly. Once the leaves are past their peak, you&#8217;ll find a lot fewer people in the park. That just leaves more room for the rest of us.</p>
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		<title>Perseids</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 17:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week was the annual Perseid Meteor Shower. The shower peaked Thursday night, but Sarah and I went out both Wednesday and Thursday nights to see what we could see. We drove outside of town a good 20 minutes or so, into a very dark state forest and laid on the ground, on the dam [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week was the annual <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perseid">Perseid Meteor Shower</a>. The shower peaked Thursday night, but Sarah and I went out both Wednesday and Thursday nights to see what we could see. We drove outside of town a good 20 minutes or so, into a very dark state forest and laid on the ground, on the dam of our favorite lake, looking up at the night sky.</p>
<p>Wednesday, we saw about 15-20 meteors, include 3-4 really long/bright ones. I tried to take some photos, and while I did get some good shots of the stars, the meteors proved difficult to photograph.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_6451" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4899379517/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4096/4899379517_d919285002.jpg" alt="DSC_6451" width="500" height="333" /></a></p>
<p>In this crop, you can see a meteor. I had to increase the brightness a lot to be able to see it, but it&#8217;s there.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_6451_v2" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4901423763/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4102/4901423763_3f8cca0c06.jpg" alt="DSC_6451_v2" width="500" height="480" /></a></p>
<p>The next shot appears to have a meteor, but it&#8217;s actually an airplane.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_6463" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4899380469/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4097/4899380469_513e429e85.jpg" alt="DSC_6463" width="500" height="333" /></a></p>
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<p>Thursday night, my mom and nephew joined us. I was worried that my nephew, who is 12 1/2, would get bored &#8212; even at the peak of the shower, in a very dark location, it can be 10 minutes or more between meteors. It takes a lot of patience. But he was fascinated! And, he was great at spotting meteors. He counted 22 meteors &#8230; and he noted that number 5 was the best.</p>
<p>Even if there hadn&#8217;t been a meteor shower at all, it would have been a great experience. It&#8217;s shocking how many more stars you can see, just by going a ways out of town. We all also enjoyed the sounds of various insects, and the occasional &#8221;ploop&#8221; sound of a frog jumping in the water, or a fish coming to the surface.</p>
<p>Watching the meteor shower certainly gave me a renewed sense of appreciation for astronomy, and I&#8217;m glad my nephew was fascinated as well. My great-great uncle discovered <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comet_Morehouse" target="_blank">Morehouse Comet</a>, so I guess it&#8217;s in our blood!</p>
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		<title>2009 in review, personally</title>
		<link>http://www.apertome.com/blog/2010/01/06/2009-in-review-personally/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 23:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Apertome</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[No bike content here, that&#8217;ll be a separate post. 2009 was a strange year. We spent most of the year in Pennsylvania, having moved there in October of 2008 when Sarah was offered a job there. Her job was great, but we hated living there (really, we hated the Wilkes-Barre area, not the whole of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No bike content here, that&#8217;ll be a separate post.</p>
<p>2009 was a strange year. We spent most of the year in Pennsylvania, having moved there in October of 2008 when Sarah was offered a job there.</p>
<p>Her job was great, but we hated living there (really, we hated the Wilkes-Barre area, not the whole of PA). We missed our families, both of whom live in Indiana. We took a long hard look at what was important to us and we realized we belonged back in Indiana.</p>
<p>So, in September of 2009, we moved back home. Once we returned, we went through a lot of effort to attempt to put our lives back the way they were before the move. And, we did such a good job of it that now it almost feels like the 10 months we spent living in Pennsylvania never happened. Like a weird dream, or an extended vacation (even though our time there was largely miserable).</p>
<p>I also found myself unemployed at the beginning of 2009, and started my own company. That went relatively well, but ultimately I learned that I hate working for myself, at least in that way. After we moved back home, I got a more normal job, and it feels great.</p>
<p>So, in a way, it was a year-and-change of mis-fires: moving to Pennsylvania, starting my own company. But we learned valuable lessons about how we DON&#8217;T want to live, which in turn reinforced how we DO want to live. It was a year of taking risks, but also of taking control of our lives, and learning how to steer the ship. We oversteered a couple of times, but we managed to correct for it.</p>
<p>Moving back home was even risky. Sarah had to quit a good job so we could do it, and we spent a lot of our savings to make it happen. But we saw what we wanted and went for it, and I am proud to say that we did. We are now both gainfully employed and loving being here &#8230; near our families and friends. It&#8217;s great to be home.</p>
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		<title>Rock Shelter Trail</title>
		<link>http://www.apertome.com/blog/2009/11/02/rock-shelter-trail-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Apertome</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sarah and I did another hike with my nephew, Avery. This time, we hiked the three-mile Rock Shelter Trail, a longer and more difficult trail than we have done with him in the past, and probably the longest hike he has done. Here&#8217;s a map. View 2009-10-25 Rock Shelter Trail in a larger map The [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah and I did another hike with my nephew, Avery. This time, we hiked the three-mile Rock Shelter Trail, a longer and more difficult trail than we have done with him in the past, and probably the longest hike he has done. Here&#8217;s a map.</p>
<p><iframe width="525" height="550" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" src="http://maps.google.com/maps/ms?ie=UTF8&amp;hl=en&amp;t=p&amp;msa=0&amp;msid=111635810301286069972.0004776fc9808d0163ed9&amp;ll=39.304019,-86.420774&amp;spn=0.018264,0.022531&amp;z=15&amp;output=embed"></iframe><br /><small>View <a href="http://maps.google.com/maps/ms?ie=UTF8&amp;hl=en&amp;t=p&amp;msa=0&amp;msid=111635810301286069972.0004776fc9808d0163ed9&amp;ll=39.304019,-86.420774&amp;spn=0.018264,0.022531&amp;z=15&amp;source=embed" style="color:#0000FF;text-align:left">2009-10-25 Rock Shelter Trail</a> in a larger map</small></p>
<p>The hike started on a fire road, and went downhill for a while before turning to a narrow trail and descending more steeply. We taught Avery how to follow the blazes on the trail, and he turned it into a game to see how many blazes he could find.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5357" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070917212/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2492/4070917212_0a30585275.jpg" alt="DSC_5357" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5357" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070917212/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5364" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070919944/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2521/4070919944_638ba4e809.jpg" alt="DSC_5364" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>Once we reached the bottom of the ravine, the trail followed a creek, crossing it many times. We tried to catch some frogs, but they got away from us.</p>
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<p>Avery did, however, find part of an acorn &#8212; which is almost as exciting as a frog.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5390" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070171417/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5391" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070933338/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2431/4070933338_a4dd34bb5a.jpg" alt="DSC_5391" width="331" height="500" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5391" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070933338/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5392" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070174033/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2622/4070174033_5b285e1e32.jpg" alt="DSC_5392" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>After following the creek for a while, we reached the Rock Shelter. Avery scrambled up to the top and coronated himself King of the Forest.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5404" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070939622/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3503/4070939622_040a993b9a.jpg" alt="DSC_5404" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5404" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070939622/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5394" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070175425/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2799/4070175425_1fcd6ca645.jpg" alt="DSC_5394" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5394" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070175425/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5398" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070938142/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2599/4070938142_010582d677.jpg" alt="DSC_5398" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>We hung out in the &#8220;Rock Shelter&#8221; for a while.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5398" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070938142/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5409" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070940538/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3484/4070940538_25cf9f75cf.jpg" alt="DSC_5409" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5412" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070181119/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3496/4070181119_69e6cf0e04.jpg" alt="DSC_5412" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>I believe Avery and Sarah were singing a song in the following shot. In fact, I think the dog is singing, too.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5419" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070184383/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2536/4070184383_ba32553501.jpg" alt="DSC_5419" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>We sat to have a snack. Problem with that was, Rob was very interested in what we were eating, as can be seen here.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5419" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070184383/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5428" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070945880/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2592/4070945880_1fb2563d50.jpg" alt="DSC_5428" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>We moved on, following the creek a little longer. Then, the trail climbed rather sharply, for a while. But everyone did very well, and no one complained.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5428" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070945880/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5431" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070947984/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2757/4070947984_673cbec1e9.jpg" alt="DSC_5431" width="331" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>We passed a pond, and soon were on another fire road, on flatter ground.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5434" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070189383/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2626/4070189383_8e683f9c17.jpg" alt="DSC_5434" width="500" height="331" /></a></p>
<p>More songs were sung; I believe there was one that never ended, followed by (paradoxically) a few others. Maybe something about a leaky bucket.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5434" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070189383/"></a> <a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="DSC_5439" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/4070191583/"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2770/4070191583_46cf78d75e.jpg" alt="DSC_5439" width="331" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>I loved this hike. It&#8217;s great to spend some quality time with my nephew; and as he gets older, there are more and more things we can do together.</p>
<p>On our way home, we stopped at the <a href="http://www.musgraveorchard.com/" target="_blank">Musgrave Orchard</a> to buy some fresh cider. Followed by dinner at mom&#8217;s house, and then pumpkin carving. It was a wonderful, full day.</p>
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		<title>Ogle Lake hike</title>
		<link>http://www.apertome.com/blog/2009/10/16/ogle-lake-hike/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 21:45:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We had planned to do a hike with my family, but it ended up being 40 degrees and raining. I still wanted to hike, Sarah was willing to give it a shot, and my nephew, Avery, still wanted to hike as well. So it ended up being just the three of us. We headed out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had planned to do a hike with my family, but it ended up being 40 degrees and raining. I still wanted to hike, Sarah was willing to give it a shot, and my nephew, Avery, still wanted to hike as well. So it ended up being just the three of us. We headed out to Brown County State Park to hike around Ogle Lake.</p>
<p>A little background: Brown County State Park is a big tourist destination in the fall. People travel hundreds of miles to go to Brown County, see the leaves, camp/hike/bike/ride horses, fish, hunt, and shop in the nearby town of Nashville, Indiana. Nashville, and the state park, can get quite crowded sometimes, especially on fall weekends. It&#8217;s popular for a reason: it&#8217;s incredibly beautiful. But the crowds can be a bummer at times.</p>
<p>Being locals, we are fortunate that we get to see this beautiful area year round. And, we can head out there on a Wednesday evening if we feel so motivated. So, that&#8217;s exactly what we did. And on this weekday evening with chilly rain, the park was almost empty. Fortunately for us, the rain stopped about the time we started hiking.</p>
<p>I always enjoy spending time with Avery. He&#8217;s a great kid, and he reminds me of myself at his age. Conversation topics ranged from the reason for the change in seasons, how some people can curl their tongue while others can&#8217;t, mileage markers along the trail, beavers, fish, deer, etc.</p>
<p>And of course, I love hiking with my wife. And the dog, who fell into the water trying to drink at one point.</p>
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<p>On our way home, I stopped at a couple of the many vistas the park has to offer. It was nearly dark, and the hills were shrouded in fog. Beautiful. In the last shot, you can see the Hesitation Point mountain bike trail running across it.</p>
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		<title>Ugh.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 02:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My wife and I have taken turns being sick for nearly three weeks now. Here&#8217;s a rough sequence of events: I caught some kind of stomach bug, possibly from drinking from a creek. Sarah got a cold. I got over my stomach bug. Sarah almost got over her cold. Sarah got strep throat. Until a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wife and I have taken turns being sick for nearly three weeks now. Here&#8217;s a rough sequence of events:</p>
<ul>
<li>I caught some kind of stomach bug, possibly from drinking from a creek.</li>
<li>Sarah got a cold.</li>
<li>I got over my stomach bug.</li>
<li>Sarah <em>almost</em> got over her cold.</li>
<li>Sarah got strep throat.</li>
<li>Until a few days ago, I had not caught anything from Sarah. She complimented me on my Immune System of Steel.</li>
<li>The next day, I got sick (cold or strep throat or something).</li>
<li>Sarah got pink eye.</li>
</ul>
<p>That brings us to today. I&#8217;m feeling better than I have the past couple of days, but still have a sore throat. Sarah&#8217;s still coughing a lot. Hopefully she can get over pink eye pretty quickly, and hopefully I can avoid catching it. Naturally, all of this is happening during the busiest time yet for my business.</p>
<p>We could use a break here. Geez.</p>
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		<title>Nescopeck State Park</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 13:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last weekend, mom drove our car up from Indiana and stayed for a couple of days. This was huge, as it meant I didn&#8217;t have to tow the car behind the U-Haul. She also helped unpack and clean. I was going to work on Monday, but I ended up taking the day off so I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last weekend, mom drove our car up from Indiana and stayed for a couple of days. This was huge, as it meant I didn&#8217;t have to tow the car behind the U-Haul. She also helped unpack and clean. I was going to work on Monday, but I ended up taking the day off so I could spend it with her. After all, I no longer live just a few minutes away from her, and this was the last chance to spend time with her before she flew back to Indiana.</p>
<p>After a very productive morning, we decided to check out a state park in the afternoon. We chose to go down to <a href="http://www.dcnr.state.pa.us/stateparks/parks/nescopeck.aspx" target="_blank">Nescopeck State Park</a>, which is a bit south of Wilkes-Barre. The drive there was beautiful, taking us on 309, up the mountain to Mountain Top, and back down the other side. Around here, I actually have to use the low gears in my car.</p>
<p>We went to the park office first, which was a much more impressive building than I expected. We got a trail map and some information about other parks in the area. Then we decided to go down to see Lake Frances, and planned a hike of probably around two miles. The folks at the forest office even gave us a couple of bright orange vests, as it&#8217;s hunting season.</p>
<p>Our hike started by traveling along one side of the lake. The trail we were on goes all the way around, I believe, but we only went along one side before turning onto a different trail. I was hoping for some vistas or mountain views but this particular park is in a valley; we did get some views of surrounding mountains, but I&#8217;ll have to explore other parks to find the epic vistas I crave.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2963485346/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3269/2963485346_eb8eaedc29.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0003" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Lake Frances</em></p>
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<em>Lake Frances again</em></p>
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<em>A small pier </em></p>
<p>We got on the Nescopeck Trail, and I have to say, I was a little disappointed with the trail itself. It was more like a fire road than a trail, really. It was very wide and smooth, and flat, and even had slight tire ruts. It was overgrown with grass, but it was well-maintained. It was pleasant, but it was more of a walk through the woods than a hike. Still, it was a beautiful day and I was happy just to be out.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2963489214/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3162/2963489214_0e0174a2ec.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0013" width="333" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>The trail is wide, but it&#8217;s hard to complain with scenery like this</em></p>
<p>We passed a pond or small lake and looked for an access point, but couldn&#8217;t find one. We hiked on and found a very quiet, peaceful spot by Nescopeck Creek. It was off a small side trail and it&#8217;d be easy to miss it. We explored the creek a little and rested before heading out.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2962648423/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3007/2962648423_73d10a4b63.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0023" width="333" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Nescopeck Creek</em></p>
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<em>Mom, resting on a very large rock</em></p>
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<em>The trail leading back up to the main trail</em></p>
<p>We continued on our way, and the trail followed the creek on and off. Before long we reached another lake, this one arguably more beautiful than Lake Frances. The afternoon autumn light, the blue sky, the clouds, the foliage, and the reflections in the water all made for quite an impressive scene.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2963496412/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3037/2963496412_923b972aa5.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0035" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Lake</em></p>
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<em>Another shot of the lake</em></p>
<p>We got on the Woodland Way trail and this one was narrower, more rugged,  and more interesting. The trail surface had a lot of rocks, and thick moss on one side. It meandered along the lake shore.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2962655423/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3180/2962655423_081d05d6be.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0049" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
Moss by the trail</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2963505616/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3164/2963505616_4cf3cd1d4f.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0068" width="333" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Rocky trail</em></p>
<p>This was another stunningly peaceful place. We stopped every few steps to admire it, and did not speak much. It required a certain quiet reverence.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2962659885/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3215/2962659885_60a828c52e.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0060" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>The Lake, with Mount Yeager in the distance</em></p>
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<em>Rocks and leaves</em></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2962663493/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3193/2962663493_94b8245de3.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0072" width="333" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Trail surface</em></p>
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</a><span class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium"><em>Another lake shot</em></span><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2962658455/"></a></p>
<p>Within a few minutes, we were back at Lake Frances. From there, it was only a short walk back to the car.</p>
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<em>Lake Frances</em></p>
<p>All in all, I enjoyed the park. The hiking was easy, but the scenery was quite beautiful. I&#8217;ll have to try some of the other trails there and see if most of them are interesting like the Woodland Way trail, or more like the easier Nescopeck Trail. There are a whole bunch of other parks I want to check out before going back here, though.</p>
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		<title>Hitched, without a hitch</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 03:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our wedding went absolutely perfectly. I&#8217;ll get to the details of the wedding in a minute, but let me start at the beginning. First, a little background. We got married at Yellowwood State Forest, not far from Bloomington, Indiana, where we live. We rented a shelter by the lake. We have done quite a bit [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our wedding went absolutely perfectly. I&#8217;ll get to the details of the wedding in a minute, but let me start at the beginning. First, a little background. We got married at Yellowwood State Forest, not far from Bloomington, Indiana, where we live. We rented a shelter by the lake. We have done quite a bit of hiking, camping, and biking at Yellowwood, so it&#8217;s a place that means a lot to us. Since we wanted to get married outdoors, it wasn&#8217;t hard to decide that we should do it at Yellowwood. Note: I am only posting a few photos now. I&#8217;ll post many more later. Most of the photos are not mine.</p>
<p><strong>Friday</strong></p>
<p>Friday was a day off work spent making preparations and hoping the rain would stop. It rained most of the day and was really quite disgusting outside. We even bought a bunch of candles and some oil lamps so it wouldn&#8217;t be too dark in the tent/shelter, if we had to have our ceremony under them. Friday evening, our families finally met for the first time over Italian food. Good times and good food were had by all, and everyone got along very well.</p>
<p><strong>Friday night</strong></p>
<p>Friday night we had planned to get a campsite, and invited everyone to make s&#8217;mores around a campfire. Since it had rained all day, we instead opted to use a fireplace in the shelter where we were getting married, in case it started raining again. We showed up late (this would later become a theme, and I felt terrible about it each time). We weren&#8217;t sure anyone would show up. Who would be crazy enough to drive out to the middle of nowhere, after a day of nothing but rain, in the dark, through dense fog, to sit around a fire?</p>
<p>About 20 people, as it turned out. In fact, a few people were already there waiting by the time we arrived. It was extremely muggy, but everyone enjoyed themselves nonetheless. I built a fire, which went a lot smoother than I expected (it&#8217;s hard to build a fire with people watching). We made a lot of s&#8217;mores, had both cold and hot apple cider (with optional rum) and spent about 2 hours catching up with friends. There were a number of people there who I hadn&#8217;t seen in years, and it was great to talk to them.</p>
<p>Once things were winding down, Sarah and I took a minute to go down by the water just the two of us. The fog was extremely dense and the glow of the moon made it possible to see the lake slightly. It was truly beautiful and I was glad we got a few moments to ourselves.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867144412/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3092/2867144412_3836ffec21.jpg" border="0" alt="15730007" width="500" height="332" /></a><br />
<em>Yellowwood Lake in the fog, at night</em></p>
<p>After that, Sarah and I parted ways, not to see each other again until the wedding. I went back to the cabin we rented with my groomsmen, Michael and Josh, my best friends from when I went to Northwestern University, and Michael&#8217;s wife, Laurel. We stayed up late hanging out at the cabin.</p>
<p><strong>Saturday </strong></p>
<p><strong>Preparations</strong></p>
<p>We had been worried it&#8217;d rain, as it did in the days leading up to the wedding, but we had a gorgeous sunny day. It was a bit warm, in the upper 80s, and quite humid, but that sure beat rain, and the wind kept everyone a little cooler and added a certain dreamy atmosphere to the proceedings.</p>
<p>The groomsmen and I were running a little behind schedule. Josh and Laurel and I went to set up signs directing people to the wedding. At one stop I started driving before Josh was all the way in the car &#8212; he ended up hopping alongside the car as I drove off, yelling at me to stop. I stopped just a few feet later, and felt really bad I&#8217;d done that. He wasn&#8217;t hurt.</p>
<p>We got to the wedding site a little late and did a few photos before the ceremony, but we weren&#8217;t able to do as many as we&#8217;d hoped. I talked to the minister to make sure everything was in order, and asked him about 50 different questions about how the ceremony was supposed to go. I was nervous, not about getting married, but about being up in front of everyone.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2866314137/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3066/2866314137_f0cd287281.jpg" border="0" alt="100_6715" width="375" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Yellowwood Lake</em></p>
<p><strong>The Wedding Ceremony<br />
</strong></p>
<p>Before I knew it, things were under way. Everything was perfect. The chairs were set up in the best possible place near the lake, the musicians sounded amazing, the wind made the leaves rustle in the trees. I escorted mom down the aisle and to her seat, and went to stand at the front. My groomsmen were close behind. I looked up and could see Sarah and Sammy, the flower girl walking together. They were still fairly far away, but their gradual approach made me anticipate Sarah drawing near even more.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867147870/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3137/2867147870_c131e7df8b.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0190" width="333" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Me, with mom</em></p>
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</a><span class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium"><em>Anticipation</em></span><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2866314629/"></a></p>
<p>Sammy, who is four, was being very shy and holding Sarah&#8217;s hand. She dropped all of the flower petals in one spot, rather than dropping a few as she walked. I swear, she is the cutest kid ever, and while dropping all the flower petals in a pile wasn&#8217;t exactly what we had in mind, she was performing her #1 task of being adorable.</p>
<p>As Sarah approached, I was just stunned by her beauty. She looked incredible. Her dress had several layers of sheer fabric, and while her veil hid her face slightly, it just made me want to see more. I was so overwhelmed that I forgot to pull her veil back, and she had to remind me. A smooth move on my part.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867148384/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3082/2867148384_9c06d4313e.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0194" width="327" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Sarah approaches</em></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867145754/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3122/2867145754_c8ab10ec0b.jpg" border="0" alt="100_6734" width="375" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Getting started</em></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867212392/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3178/2867212392_a4f124a871.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0197" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Bridesmaids and flower girl</em></p>
<p>The minister gave an introduction, after which my sister delivered a touching speech about what love is, and how we embody that, and how both of us looked to our grandparents (who are no longer with us) as a source of inspiration of the ideal marriages. It was a little difficult, as we really wished our grandparents could have been there, but it was the best way to honor their memory.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867146084/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3012/2867146084_2105b58a14.jpg" border="0" alt="100_6747" width="375" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>My sister after her speech</em></p>
<p>Next, my mom played a piece on the cello with one of the musicians, who she taught to play. I was glad they played something a little upbeat, as it might&#8217;ve been too much to handle otherwise.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2866319269/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3042/2866319269_2407fbeeca.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0205" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Mom playing the cello</em></p>
<p>The rest of the ceremony itself is a blur. I had the various parts of the ceremony compartmentalized in my head (sermon, vows, rings, presentation, benediction, etc) but it all flowed together very nicely. I was glad it was so coherent, but it was a bit dizzying how quickly we went from one thing to the next.</p>
<p>All this time I could do little other than gaze at my bride. She&#8217;s always gorgeous, but I&#8217;ve never seen her looking <em>this</em> beautiful. Her veil blew in the wind, at times getting in the way, but seeing the long fabric flow was very pretty. And the sun reflected off her veil, illuminating her face with a soft glow. She was breathtaking.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867149052/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3100/2867149052_ed71414703.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0201" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Sarah looked beautiful. Apparently, she couldn&#8217;t keep her eyes off me, either.</em></p>
<p>Soon we got to the vows, and at first my voice was very shaky. I had to make a conscious effort to regain my composure and to my surprise, it worked. I stood up as straight as I could (which was more difficult than you&#8217;d think, as we were on the side of a hill) and delivered my vows with more confidence. I looked at Sarah and listened to her delivering her vows. She was crying as she did so. I&#8217;m not sure if she realized how close to tears I was.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2866319925/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3157/2866319925_d866bb8dff.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0208" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Exchanging vows</em></p>
<p>Somewhere in here we exchanged rings, and this went smoothly also. The minister said some other stuff, but to be honest I wasn&#8217;t really paying much attention anymore. I had said at several points leading up to the wedding that the kissing the bride part was really the part I was looking forward to, and the minister alluded to this, saying &#8220;NOW, you may kiss the bride.&#8221; As I kissed my wife for the first time, I was completely overwhelmed. This moment had finally come. It was fantastic.</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867146898/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3268/2867146898_afb9ede084.jpg" border="0" alt="100_6777" width="375" height="500" /></a><br />
<em>Kissing the bride</em></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2867151218/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3170/2867151218_7961d9aa0c.jpg" border="0" alt="DSC_0213" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Walking out</em></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2866321649/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3100/2866321649_9292a61449.jpg" border="0" alt="IMG_2604" width="500" height="333" /></a><br />
<em>Groomsmen, and another new wife of about a month </em></p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/apertome/2866322989/"><br />
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<p>We walked out down the aisle, in hindsight we probably just about ran out of there. We were moving at a good clip, I think. We set ourselves up for a receiving line but were still reeling from the whole experience. We greeted everyone, and then spent some time taking photos.</p>
<p><strong>Photos</strong></p>
<p>We did a few with the wedding party and our families at the wedding location, and a few with just the two of us in a couple of other places closer to the lake, at the cabin we rented, and by a silo, cornfield, fence, and a bridge.</p>
<p><strong>Food and Toasts</strong></p>
<p>We returned after being gone too long taking photos. Kids were playing by the lake, finding geodes, catching bugs, and throwing rocks in the lake. My nephew (who was the usher) pretty well destroyed his tux &#8212; it was great.</p>
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<em>Kids playing by the lake</em></p>
<p>The heat was getting to me, and I was not feeling very well. The food was cold by the time we returned. Fortunately everyone had done as we asked and went ahead and ate while we were gone. We were starving, but I had a hard time eating. It was just too hot. We spent some more time talking to our guests, and soon it was time for a toast &#8212; but not before I managed to spill champagne all over my sleeve while opening an overzealous bottle.</p>
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<em>Opening more champagne</em></p>
<p>I gave a brief toast thanking our mothers, the rest of our family, the wedding party, our guests, and above all, Sarah. It was a little generic, perhaps, but I really did want to thank everyone for everything they&#8217;d done. Josh, one of my groomsmen, had been working on a toast all day (literally) and while I liked it, a few people thought it was a little mean. He did talk about some low times in our lives, but I think the point was that Sarah and I are strong enough together to overcome just about anything. He may have missed the mark on a couple of points, but overall I thought it was very good &#8212; and he put a lot of thought into it. It meant a lot to me. Sarah&#8217;s sister (and bridesmaid) said a few words as well, which was very sweet.</p>
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<em>Sarah</em></p>
<p><strong>Hiking</strong></p>
<p>After the toasts, we split up to prepare for a hike. We had been planning a hike after the wedding, but people needed to go back to town to change and get ready for it. I was hoping to get a little rest first, but there wasn&#8217;t much time for that.</p>
<p>Most people didn&#8217;t return for the hike, and I can&#8217;t say I blame them. It was hot, and everyone was very tired. In fact, the humidity was even worse in the woods. I was still not feeling well, but I still enjoyed the hike. We hiked the Jackson Creek trail, which is a little over a mile. After that, we <em>did</em> have a little time to rest, after which I felt much better.</p>
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<em>The forest</em></p>
<p><strong>Evening<br />
</strong></p>
<p>We met the wedding party and some other friends at Lennie&#8217;s, a restaurant in Bloomington that&#8217;s attached to the Bloomington Brewing Company. The food and beer were great, and by this time I felt Sarah&#8217;s friends and my friends were interacting well as one group. At first the groups had mostly talked separately, but we had some great conversation at dinner as one larger group.</p>
<p>After that, we headed back to the cabin to celebrate with drinks and a bad action movie. We spent the time much how we normally do when we hang out with our friends, and it was great. We need someone else to get married so we have another excuse to get together.</p>
<p><strong>Sunday</strong></p>
<p>We stayed up late and celebrated. We all went out for breakfast and spent some time just talking more at our apartment. We looked at some photos that Mike, one of Sarah&#8217;s friends, had taken. He did a great job, and I hope I can post them somewhere soon.</p>
<p>After everyone left, we went to take down the wedding signs and return the cabin keys. It was an extremely windy day (thanks, Ike!) and as we drove around town there were branches and debris blowing everywhere.</p>
<p>We headed out toward where the wedding was, and I was thinking how amazed I was that everything had gone so well. I almost expected something to go wrong, and well &#8230; it did. As we were driving down State Road 46 and around 45 mph, the wind blew a tree over. It fell onto the road right in front of us. I hit the brakes, but couldn&#8217;t stop in time. We rolled right over it, but got a flat tire in the process.</p>
<p>Sarah was visibly shaken. I was a little bit too but I quickly got out the jack and spare tire and went to work. Unfortunately, we were on an incline, and as soon as I got the wheel off the ground, the car rolled forward down the hill, crushing the jack beneath it. The car only moved 6-12 inches, but the jack is only designed to handle downward pressure. It didn&#8217;t make it.</p>
<p>We ended up having to have the car towed, and later we&#8217;d find we did about $400 in damage to the car. Still, I&#8217;ll take that over a problem with the actual wedding any day.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still stunned at how well the wedding went. Married life is excellent so far &#8212; I feel closer to Sarah than ever. It&#8217;s truely been an amazing experience.</p>
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		<title>A trip to Fort Wayne</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We had a very busy weekend. We had to go up to the Indianapolis area and meet with the minister who is officiating at our wedding. But that wasn&#8217;t until 3:00, so we went up a little early, went to a bike shop (Indy Cycle Specialist) and I test rode a Surly Long Haul Trucker [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a very busy weekend. We had to go up to the Indianapolis area and meet with the minister who is officiating at our wedding. But that wasn&#8217;t until 3:00, so we went up a little early, went to a bike shop (<a href="http://www.indycyclespecialist.com/" target="_blank">Indy Cycle Specialist</a>) and I test rode a Surly Long Haul Trucker &#8212; what an awesome bike! I talked to Jim there about the bike and he was very helpful. He had the touring mindset and a lot of the same philosophies about riding that I have, and knew his stuff, too. I was tempted to pull the trigger and get it, but I didn&#8217;t &#8230; yet.</p>
<p>The meeting with the pastor was good; he really challenges us to look at our relationship differently, and to actively seek out ways we can make each other&#8217;s lives better. I want to be the best possible husband for Sarah, so I very much appreciate his sage advice. At first I thought these pre-marriage meetings would be a little weird or awkward (especially as someone who isn&#8217;t religious), but I think they&#8217;re quite helpful and give us more of a sense of purpose.</p>
<p>Sarah&#8217;s mom had to have surgery, so after we met with the pastor, we headed up to Fort Wayne to visit her and help however we could. I&#8217;m glad Sarah got to see her mom. I left Sarah at the hospital for a while on Saturday, and I think they had a good visit. Saturday was Sarah&#8217;s birthday, and it was too bad she didn&#8217;t get to spend it doing something fun, but I was glad she could be there for her mom.</p>
<p>Sunday morning, I dropped Sarah off at the hospital and headed out for a ride. I had printed a route I found on bikely.com that looked interesting. I parked the car at a strip mall and started riding.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve ridden in Fort Wayne a couple of times before, and there&#8217;s some good riding in the area. It&#8217;s quite flat compared to southern Indiana, but there are some hills here and there, and some areas are quite scenic. When I started riding, I was facing a headwind and actually had several hills to climb. It was warm, but not overly hot.</p>
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<em>Flat farmland</em></p>
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</a><span class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium"><em>Corn</em></span></p>
<p>The roads were pretty quiet. I saw few cars, but mostly had the road to myself. I saw a couple of other cyclists going the other way and waved. The west side of town, where I was riding, is pretty interesting because you go from being in town to rural areas very quickly. It&#8217;s kind of like Bloomington in that way.</p>
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<em>Farm</em></p>
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<em>Railroad tracks</em></p>
<p>I saw one of few shady spots and stopped to look at my map for a couple of minutes. While I was stopped, another cyclist passed me. I rode on and caught up with him. We introduced ourselves (his name is Jeff) and he asked how long I was looking to ride. I said about 30 miles, and he offered to show me a route, so I ditched the Bikely route and followed his lead.</p>
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</a><span class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium"><em>Catching up with Jeff</em></span></p>
<p>It was really cool to get a tour from a local. I don&#8217;t mind following maps and whatnot, but he told me a couple of the roads I had planned on riding on weren&#8217;t very good &#8212; one has a fresh layer of chipseal and the other is quite busy. The route he took me on was very quiet &#8212; we only saw a few cars the whole time and were able to ride side by side most of the time.</p>
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<em>Turn</em></p>
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<em>Huge power lines</em></p>
<p>In talking with Jeff, it came up that he knows one of the mechanics at an LBS in Bloomington who has worked on one of my bikes. It sure is a small world. At one point our ride went through the small town of Roanoke, Indiana. It has an interesting and quaint downtown area, and Jeff pointed out <a href="http://www.josephdecuis.com/" target="_blank">Joseph Decuis</a>, a famous restauraunt, and a bed and breakfast there.</p>
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<em>Downtown Roanoke, Indiana</em></p>
<p>One thing that never ceases to impress me about cycling is how strong many older riders are. Jeff told me he&#8217;s 58 &#8230; but he rides very well. I guess cycling is a sport that doesn&#8217;t beat up your body like a lot of others, and the longer you ride, the stronger you get.</p>
<p>At one point we also passed what is now really just a ditch, but Jeff told me it used to be a part of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wabash_and_Erie_Canal" target="_blank">Wabash &amp; Eerie Canal</a>. A bit of history I never would&#8217;ve known about without someone with local knowledge.</p>
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<em>Riding</em></p>
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<em>Trees</em></p>
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<em>Going over a bridge</em></p>
<p>The ride ended up being 29.5 miles, exactly what I had in mind. I told Jeff to let me know if he&#8217;ll be in Bloomington and I can give him a tour.</p>
<p>After my ride I headed back to the hospital to see if Sarah&#8217;s mom had been released yet. When I got there I decided to change clothes in the parking lot, using car doors and the car itself for privacy. I had just looked around to make sure nobody was nearby and I thought the coast was clear, thinking &#8220;The only way anyone could see me would be from above.&#8221; The next thing I know I hear a helicopter coming in for landing. I waited for it to land before changing.</p>
<p>We were hoping we could give Sarah&#8217;s mom a ride home, but she hadn&#8217;t been released yet and we needed to get going. On our way back I decided I ought to get the Long Haul Trucker. It was good timing. They were selling two other Long Haul Truckers when I was picking mine up &#8230; awesome. I don&#8217;t have any pictures of it  yet. I&#8217;ll probably be selling my road bike (a 2006 Giant OCR2) as I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll be needing it anymore. It&#8217;s been a great bike, but the LHT is very versatile and handles a lot better than I expected unloaded, making the road bike seem pretty superfluous.</p>
<p>It sure was a whirlwind of a trip. We&#8217;re glad to be home, and I can&#8217;t wait to get some rides in on the new bike. Unfortunately I won&#8217;t be able to get any longer rides in for a while, since we&#8217;re going to Green Bay for a wedding this weekend.</p>
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